December 26, 2006

AT WAR WITH BARBIE.COM -- by Steve Nadis

At the risk of sounding like a hypocrite, I'll start out by saying I'm not a big fan of having kids play games on the computer. That said (and this is the part where I might start sounding like a hypocrite), my 4-and-a-half-year-old daughter has spent a little bit of time at the Barbie.com site, of late, checking out the various amusements to be had there. But here's my gripe: When she signs in--and she has a lovely name--Barbie.com denies her access, saying something like: "You just used a naughty word. Wouldn't you like to try again and use your real name?" But there's nothing wrong with her name and it's not close --phonetically or spellingly -- to anything I can think of that sounds "naughty." Which has left me furious, impugning my young daughter's good name like that, almost to the point of wanting to file some kind of grievance. But against whom (Barbie.com? the webmaster? Mattel?) and for what (calling my daugher's name "naughty"? libel? harrassment?). Well, I guess you can see the quandary I'm in, which is partly of my own doing. For if I'd stuck to my guns and kept the kids away from sites like Barbie.com & PBSkids, none of this would have happened.
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1 - Don't give up! That's perfectly horrid! Barbie.dom should know better. (Comment this)

Written by: Windfall Woman at 2006/12/26 - 16:09:24
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2 - Thanks, WFW. They SHOULD know better, & that's exactly what I'll tell them when I speak with the friendly/helpful customer service rep. (Comment this)

Written by: Snake at 2006/12/26 - 16:30:40
3 - I don't know... I think it gives you a perfectly reasonable reason to stay away (far, far away) from Barbie.com. (Comment this)

Written by: daphne at 2006/12/26 - 19:07:22
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4 - You're right Daphne, it's a good thing,not a bad thing. Thanks for turning me around on that one... (Comment this)

Written by: Snake at 2006/12/26 - 21:56:28
5 - I go away for three months and I come back to this. Awesome. Nice to seem somethings stay the same... better than fiction. (Comment this)

Written by: guttersnake at 2007/01/02 - 21:51:50
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6 - Thanks GS, welcome back! (Comment this)

Written by: Snake at 2007/01/05 - 14:35:30
7 - I found this site when I was searching for "Barbie.com customer service". The same thing has happened to my daughter--who is old enough to read the comments about her name--and she's quite angry with Barbie to say the least!! While I applaud the efforts of the site to keep children away from in-appropriate language, I think they need to find another filter to use. My daughter is named for her great-grandmother and has a perfectly lovely, old fashioned name. It in no way sounds like, looks like or relates to anything "naughty!" (Comment this)

Written by: madamgoat50 at 2008/04/01 - 09:04:15
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